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What does a woman do with the wisdom God has given her?



Great question.  Did you know that 90% of the dear young single Christians who are reading this are female?  Of course, I’m guessing…it’s too early for real statistics, but I’ll bet I’m close!  (One day we’ll check it out to be sure...)

[Note:  Several years have passed since I first wrote the above, and I have been pleased to discover that men seem equally interested in what we're discussing here.  In this particular case I'm very glad to have been wrong!]

Most of us women LOVE to learn.  We love to know more about God and His ways.  We also love to know how people interact, and what makes the human world go ‘round.

The average guy, on the other hand, likes everything to fit together right so he can just get on with his business.  (If something's broken, fine, let's fix it.  If we can't fix it, well, get over it.)  He isn't usually looking for new ideas that might upset his system.

One bit of fallout from these natural tendencies is that women sometimes end up knowing things men don’t know, not only about human nature but also about spiritual matters.  Plus there are those women who God has simply made extra wise.

Was that a mistake on His part?

For some of you, Question #3 might seem a little strange.  Let me tell you where it comes from.  You see, the Holy Spirit through Paul made a couple very blunt statements about women keeping their mouths shut. 
“Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says.”  (I Corinthians 14:34)
“And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.”  (I Timothy 2:12)
I suspect these verses have been twisted and turned more energetically than just about any other scriptures in the Bible.  All kinds of folk, both men and women, are not happy with what they say.  We women, of course, aren’t the least bit comfortable with keeping silent, especially when we know something the men can’t figure out (which happens every now and then…).  

Men are troubled by the same verses for several reasons.  First, it makes their women unhappy, and that’s reason enough.  But also, many men honestly admit that women have something to teach them.  And third, men frequently don’t mind if women take over some of the work of teaching.  After all, they’ve willingly shared other tasks.

So, now that we’re agreed on that, what’s the big deal?  



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